As long as we can love each other and remember the feeling of love we had we can die without ever really going away - all the love you created is still there - all the memories are still there - you live on in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured why you were here. John was so well loved by all that knew him that he will always be with all of us - death ends a life but not a relationship! He will be missed by all of us that knew him.